July 19, 2019 | Posted by Heather Dominick
“Oh, I’ve had a time with that one”, mumbled one of my Business Miracles Eminence Members during her recent all day VIP Intensive with me.
We were talking about patience.
And she’s not the first Highly Sensitive Entrepreneur (HSE) I’ve encountered who’s struggled with the “P” word (yours truly included).
Which is ironic since, as highly sensitives, we tend to get overwhelmed when things around us are happening too quickly.
But it isn’t really about quickly vs. slowly, is it?
Patience – or lack of it – is about control.
Wanting to control when, how and how much happens — and did I mention when? 🙂
What I’ve come to know is that this “lack of patience” is directly connected to the HSE Shadow of Over-Protection.
If you are busy being frustrated that things in your business aren’t happening when and how you want them to happen, then you actually don’t have to face WHY that’s the case.
You don’t need to look at your part.
Which, of course, is EXACTLY what the Universe is asking you to do.
Look at your part.
Look at yourself.
Look at what about your part and yourself needs to change.
So, when you find yourself feeling frustrated and impatient that is your signal to call in the Universe:
“Please show me how to calm my nervous system down in this moment. Please allow me to be open to possibilities. Please support me in trusting in the divine plan of invisible unfoldings. Thank you.”
And so it is.
P.S. BTW – my Eminence Member was totally transformed regarding patience by the end of our VIP Day together and recently emailed me this, “I’ve booked 8 prospect calls more easily than ever before and I see it’s directly connected to dropping the frustration and being willing to be patient in the way we talked about… Too funny …”