November 12, 2018 | Posted by Heather Dominick | Add A Comment
Birthing a Business Miracles Training Retreat is exactly that – the process of something magnificent being born.
It starts with a conception based on what I see, hear and feel my Community of Highly Sensitive Entrepreneurs (HSEs) needing – from what they share on our forums, bring to our group Core Practice Consistency Calls and their private call support as well.
And then there is gestation: the idea feels its way through my consciousness, my research and my own HSE Strengths.
From there the concept begins to take form, molding into teachings, exercises and experiential exchanges that can only take place in person.
Then the hardest part: bringing HSEs from all around the world out of their home office comfort cocoons to pack, travel, go through security and do what needs to be done to bring our virtual Community together for what, in truth, is just a few short days.
The Team arrives first. Our energy gels bringing our bond deeper, forming a strong container for the transformation about to transpire. Community members come second. Slowly we all adjust to no longer being icons in a digital world of social connection to being three-dimensional, living, breathing beings divinely drawn together to share this journey no matter what part of the globe we call home.
And then the magic. The miracles.
I witness as each HSE releases another layer of fear and crusted armored protection, and as the light emerges through the messiness as years of baggaged weight drops, lifetimes get reclaimed on each face with the realization of the super powers our highly sensitive systems truly do hold; that we can have what we want in the way we want it and we can fulfill the mission of service we’ve been brought here to be. … Read More about giving birth
November 09, 2018 | Posted by Heather Dominick | Add A Comment
With Highly Sensitive Entrepreneurs (HSEs) there is often this urgency to MAKE MONEY NOW. I understand this completely because that’s right where I was when I first started my business: anxious, desperate, doubtful and with no sense of trust that this will all work out.
Gosh. I’ve learned a lot since then.
See, the money-anxiety comes from believing that as soon as you’ve got the money you will be able to relax and get back to your natural, spiritual way of being.
But what I’ve learned, over my nearly decade and a half of being self-employed is that the more you master the core practice of relaxing NOW, trusting NOW then the more fluid and creative actions you’re able to take which yield more NOW.
I wish I had a business mentor back then who would have taught me this rather than the fear-feeding mentors I did have pushing me to do more.
I still learned the lesson, but I’m pretty sure it was harder than it had to be.
What I wish even more is that as many HSEs as I can reach, that they will all listen and take the teaching in NOW.
More ease for more HSEs can only be a good thing.
November 07, 2018 | Posted by Heather Dominick | Add A Comment
Do you allow your HSE Coping Mechanism to take control of your business … and even your life? As HSE’s, our Coping Mechanisms can change our outlooks and diminish our efforts, and potentially even destroy our businesses. Listen in to learn which HSE Coping Mechanism you default to and how to keep it from affecting your income, relationships, health and overall well being.
The way that the super-ego plays out for pushers is anger turned outwards, and for hiders, it takes anger and implodes it.” – Heather Dominick
- The different kinds of HSE Coping Mechanisms
- How different HSE’s use these Coping Mechanisms
- Where the super-ego comes in, and how it gets our attention
- The ways that the super-ego preys upon our weaknesses
- Why super-ego incidents happen to HSE’s
- Why all of these defenses exist within us
- What it takes for HSE’s to move past these challenges
The knowing will come with the doing, but that requires you to be willing to not be perfect.” – Heather Dominick
November 02, 2018 | Posted by Heather Dominick | Add A Comment
One of my favorite teachings (that I share with my Business Miracles Community Members all the time) is, “Everyone wants transformation, but no one wants to change.”
And, boy, is this true. Especially for us Highly Sensitive Entrepreneurs (HSEs).
Oh, we LOVE the IDEA of transformation. We’ll read about it, take a course on it, talk about it until the moon is blue … but DO anything about it? Eeek. Don’t ask that! Scary. Overwhelming. Out of control … all the things we tend to work hard to avoid.
Here’s the thing though: if you are passionate about the “E” in HSE, then you will need to do things differently.
The Universe will ask you to let things/people go, alter your behavior, grow beyond what you thought capable, die to who you were.
You can’t be successfully self-employed and live your life like an employee.
It just doesn’t work that way.
So, yes, it can be scary, overwhelming, out of control. … Read More about Oooh, so satisfying!
October 31, 2018 | Posted by Heather Dominick | Add A Comment
I’m excited to share with you my latest ACTIVATION VIDEO about More Ease Attracting More Prospects! It’s short, but POWERFUL. You can find it—and more—on my YouTube Channel. Just click below to watch the video:
I’ve created these videos because as a Highly Sensitive Entrepreneur (HSE) you are literally coded to be a successful coach, healing practitioner, or creative entrepreneur. Everything the world needs right now.
And, yet, because of the tendency for HSEs to lean toward our Shadows rather than our Strengths we need to constantly be engaging in the Core Practice of shifting our perceptions about who we are and what we are capable of creating. According to A Course In Miracles, this IS the definition of a miracle.
That’s what this ACTIVATION VIDEO is designed to actualize for you, a Business Miracle.
Here are some other activations you’ll find waiting for you, too: … Read More about More Ease Attracting More Prospects
October 26, 2018 | Posted by Heather Dominick | Add A Comment
The same thing happens just about every time a Highly Sensitive Entrepreneur (HSE) first get their hands on the energy management tools I teach – they light up as miracle upon miracle occurs.
That’s the special reason I teach these uniquely-designed-for-HSEs energy management tools in Foundational Principal #1 of my 6-Month Mentoring Program (because I KNOW this core-practice is absolutely what’s needed for an HSE to shift their perception and actions from one of Shadows to Strengths).
But then something else happens – just about every time. … Read More about did you forget?
October 24, 2018 | Posted by Heather Dominick | Add A Comment
Is that negative committee of grumbling gremlins in your head trying to take over your business? When we listen to our Super-Ego Voice by operating from our HSE Shadows, we can fool ourselves into believing we are protecting ourselves and keeping ourselves safe. But what we are actually doing is the exact opposite. Listen in as Heather explains how your Super-Ego Voice (those inner grumbling gremlins!) and HSE Shadows may be sabotaging your business success.
Defenses are insane devices for self deception. The purpose of defenses are to hide reality, attack it, change it, render it inept, distort it, twist it, or reduce it to a little pile of unassembled parts.” – Heather Dominick
- The sole purpose of our defenses, or HSE Shadows, and why they are so dangerous
- How one HSE shadow can cause a domino effect of all the rest
- Why we call self criticism and self judgment the super-ego voice
- Why we need to understand our super-ego voice
- Why the super-ego voice is so much more of a pronounced force in HSE’s
- How the ego twists your knowledge into a weapon against yourself
- How Heather was affected by her own super-ego mind when she was younger
- Why deep down, many HSE’s have an idea that self criticism is comfort
- What the super-ego does to make you feel like the struggle is necessary for success, when that is completely untrue
They key is not whether you have a super-ego voice, the key is your relationship to it.” – Heather Dominick
October 19, 2018 | Posted by Heather Dominick | Add A Comment
One of the darkest HSE Shadows is the shadow of Over-Protection.
This shadow is about all of the ways we build a fortress around our bodies, our hearts, our lives – all in an attempt to protect our nervous system from becoming overloaded and from all the ways we’ve been hurt as a result in the past.
It’s the ego-mind’s attempt to keep you “safe”.
But, ironically, what ensues instead is a sense of isolation, powerlessness, “what’s wrong with me?”, “why can’t I have what she has?”, shame, limitation, lack, fear, scarcity and the foregoing of our super-power HSE Strengths.
Yikes. How depressing.
Yet! There’s good news! … Read More about this is dark
October 12, 2018 | Posted by Heather Dominick | Add A Comment
I constantly hear from HSEs insisting that they need to be doing the “next big marketing thing”. I get told how they “watched this video”, “attended this event”, or “heard this class” and that they now NEED this “next big marketing thing” and the reason they haven’t been able to be successful in their business is because they don’t have “IT”.
Whenever I hear this I first have to take a deep breath and then I kindly ask something like, “Have you been having at least one 1:1 selling conversation every day for at least 90 days?” and then I hear, “Well, no. I can’t find prospects because I don’t have “IT”!” and I lovingly reply, “Have you been ASKing people if they’d like to have a conversation with you?” and I hear, “NO! Where would I find them? What would I say?” to which I breathe even more deeply and say with even more love, “Have you been leaving your house to go out and meet them or picking up the phone to call them?”.
Now, this often produces a deep stare as if I had 3 heads.
See, here’s the thing I know for sure, HSEs are terrified of being seen because most of us have spent our lives trying very hard NOT to be seen as we’ve tried so hard to blend in with the rest of the world and not be found out for being different.
The jiggy is that this is EXACTLY what’s needed for an HSE to be successful. … Read More about the next big marketing thing
October 10, 2018 | Posted by Heather Dominick | Add A Comment
Welcome to Business Miracles, where today we are talking about The Top 12 HSE Strengths. Most Highly Sensitive Entrepreneurs have never been taught how to manage their highly sensitive nature in a way that works for them rather than against them. Listen in as Heather teaches you how to shift out of your HSE Shadow behavior and into your HSE Strengths (a Business Miracle!) by using the power of what she calls your “Self-Kindness Statement” and other tools.
The reason why we so often avoid our feelings is because somewhere within the ego mind, we believe those feelings define who we are.” – Heather Dominick
- The importance of allowing complex feelings without becoming them
- Why we often avoid confronting or acknowledging our feelings
- How our HSE strengths can help us access our self kindness
- Why being so sensitive offers us such invaluable tools for our business
- Why strengthening these muscles can help you regulate your highly empathic nature as an HSE
- How many of our HSE strengths, if we’re not careful, easily become shadows
- How being a deep feeler is different than being an empathetic person
If we’re resisting our feelings, it’s like trying to stop a wave, which takes a lot of energy and is literally impossible. You can go out and try.” – Heather Dominick
The Top 12 HSE Strengths:
- Deep Listener
- Think Deeply
- Deeply Spiritual
- Excellent with Language
- Deep Belief in Justice
- Detail Oriented
- Deep Feeler
- Acute Awareness of Subtleties
You have the ability to truly hone your empathy, your empathic nature, so that you are choosing what you receive and what you don’t.” – Heather Dominick