Ever feel like youโre drowning in decisions and doubt? For Highly Sensitive Entrepreneurs and Leaders, this is more than occasional stressโitโs an HSP pattern of energetic overload that leads to burnout, indecision, and emotional withdrawal. Thatโs why we teach a simple but powerful tool called the Order Form To The Universe (OFTU)โข.
It may look like a list, but itโs actually a transformational practice that helps you reclaim your sense of clarity, calm, and conscious direction in any situation.
How to Use the OFTU to Create from Clarity:
Ask: What DONโT I want? What DONโT I want to feel? This clears the clutter and acknowledges your truth. It lets you release pressure without pretending it isnโt there.
Ask: What DO I want? What DO I want to feel? Invite desire to speak. This is where vision begins to return, even if only in whispers.
Ask: How do I want others to feel? This powerful question re-centers your relationships in mutual alignment, purpose, and presence.
Take one inspired action. Action doesnโt need to be dramatic to be meaningful. Let one step rise naturally out of the clarity youโve just created.
End with gratitude. Gratitude seals the shift. It transforms the energy of lack into the frequency of abundance.
The OFTU isnโt just a journaling toolโitโs an energetic bridge that helps you move from scattered thoughts to aligned action. Use it before meetings, launches, tough conversations, or anytime your nervous system says, โI canโt think straight.โ
Whatโs Happening with Heather
In May 2025, I led the first-ever multi-day in-person Quantum Leap Training: HSP Coach Mastery Level 1 for a select dozen of HSP members of the Business Miracles community. Itโs the first time Iโve ever taught other HSPs (outside of my own Business Miracles Coach Team members) how to really access a high-level of coach skills as referenced in David Emeraldโs The Empowerment Dynamic Triangle, a positive alternative to Stephen Karpmanโs Drama Triangle. All to support this dozen of HSP business leaders to have more effective relationships.
Some of the training attendee members focused on prospects, others on clients, some on team and even other members on family. Weโve now completed 2 of the 6 virtual follow-up training sessions andโoh my gosh!โhow these members are showing up as HSP leaders in the world is stunning. Confusion has reduced dramatically. Communication skills have improved immensely. And the level of HSP calm is off the charts.
And so these members are happier. And so, therefore, more productive. And so the positive impact theyโve been able to make in the world in this short time is exponential.
Business Miracles Members Making an Impact
Heather Zankman
Highly Sensitive Leader and Web Strategy Director
โIn just my first few months with the Highly Sensitive Leadership Training Program, I’m shifting from ‘pushing’ to ’empowered’ following Heather’s teaching of division of time. I blocked SIX hours (which I never knew I had!) for deep focus projects, plus 5 hours for another project, and 4 hours for a third. After sharing this blocked time scheduling with my team, I realized that even with preserving sacred time for my deep focus work, AND holding personal time at the start and end of each day for Mama-flexibility, I still have more than 60% of my schedule open for client/team meetings, and am in no way making myself ‘unavailable’. Feeling empowered, and this is just the beginning!โ
Heatherโs experience illustrates how clarity leads to empowerment. With tools like the OFTU and support from the Business Miracles community, sheโs shifted from overwhelm to intentional, spacious leadership. And she did it without compromising her HSP needs. Thatโs what alignment looks like in action.
A Quick Bite of Wisdom.
โWe put in place the act of consciously showing up consistently to break the cycle of complacency and operating on autopilot.โ
Excerpt from the Self-Love as Leadership training in the Marketing Leadership Curriculum track, one of 8 training tracks available in The Highly Sensitive Leadership Training program found at www.businessmiracles.com/program.